The Black Gender War (What Has It Accomplished?)

Black Females: "All Black men aren't shyt!
 Black Males: "Neither are Black women!"

Brothas and Sistahs, Kings and Queens....

How many of you are sick and tired of seeing and hearing all of the non-productive fussing, cussing, complaining, arguing, fighting, name calling, finger-pointing sessions, as well as the constant going back and forth between multitudes of angry Black males and hostile Black females, aka, "THE BATTLE OF THE SEXES", especially via just about every social media platform there is today?

Unfortunately, the constant gender bashing on both sides, which appears to be on steroids today has now found its way into multitudes of so-called pro-Black social media communities.... most of which claim to have an allegiance to BLACK LOVE and GENDER UNITY!

FROM:

Black women bashing and demeaning Black men....

Black men vilifying and belittling Black women....

Classy, Not Trashy!

How many of y'all are getting sick and damn tired of witnessing on a daily basis hordes of very disrespectful nude, or half-naked photos of our beautiful Black Queens by our very own Brothas and Sistahs who foolishly classify such trash as being nothing more, or less than artistic expression?

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing on Earth more pleasing to the eye than a curvaceous, naked Black woman! However, out of genuine love and respect for our Black Queens, I just believe it's very poor taste for any Black male or any Black female for that matter to "PUBLICLY" post photos of naked, or half-naked Black women, as much as I believe it is for Black women to "PUBLICLY" post nude, or partially nude photos of themselves all over the Internet.

Question:

Why do we feel very obligated to post nude, or half-naked photos of our beautiful Black Sistahs "PUBLICLY" via the Internet in the first place?

Isn't there much more to a Black woman than her nude, or partially nude body....And what was even more disturbing, is there are just as many Black females who love posting nude, or half-naked photos of themselves and or other Black females as

Raising Black Boys Alone!

On behalf of all single Black mothers who are struggling a great deal today raising your children, especially your juvenile sons....this post is in NO way meant to demean single Black motherhood, or Black womanhood altogether....

This post, or this piece of advice was created exclusively for "Cultural Awareness" purposes only, as a direct result of my own research, professional work experience, case-studies and analysis!

With that being said....

In my 19 years of service for the Department of Human Services, I've encountered and counseled numerous young, inexperienced Black mothers who were having very server issues raising their juvenile sons with very little or NO HELP at all from their biological fathers....

What they all seem to have in common, which is not very surprising today, was the fact they ALL declared their juvenile sons to be the heads of their home, AKA....
"THE MAN OF THE HOUSE!"

Like it or not, agree with it or not, Sistahs...."THIS IS A HUGE NO NO", for many reasons I will share below....

Why Are Educated Black Women The Least Celebrated?

"This young Queen
 believed she could....
SO SHE DID!"

She's intelligent, she's classy not trashy, she's ambitious and extremely motivated simply because she happen to be a highly educated, career-oriented  Black woman.

She spends countless hours focusing and studying in order to maintain her 3.7 - 4.0 GPA, knowing that having access to top collegiate honor societies would look great on her resume. 

She has her stuff together and she's very capable of taking very good care of herself, which means she's able to paying her own bills and buy her own groceries....

Contrary to popular belief, if these females choose to be with a man, they're not with a man because they NEED a man - They're with a man simply because they WANT to be with him...

And if that happens to be the case, they're usually with a Black man who's on the same career path as she is, not settling for some random male who has nothing going on for himself, namely a good job, or no future goals and aspirations....

In the above case, she's a master at BALANCING her time very wisely between her relationship and her studies, and chances are, she's with a guy who's just as focused as she is when it comes to balancing a relationship and major studies.